I was inspired by bell hook’s literature and grew more interested in learning about the struggle Black women face. I cannot speak on their behalf, as their own experiences are as real as my own (in regards to racism and feminism). However, I realized that by including and intersecting, women can find commonalties in the similar yet different discriminatory experiences we face.
A friend of mine sent me this link, and I was shocked by how horribly Sara Baartman was treated. We hear that “white supremacy” is in the past, and we are beyond racism. Yet Baartman’s remains were only taken down from being a piece of art in 2002! That is 12 years ago!!!
What stood out to me from this clip is that Black women are not seen as just women, they face the sexism that Patriarchy brings forward and the racism from White Imperialism. In regards to Patriarchy, I noticed that many if not all types of women struggle with sexism, women are often portrayed as sex objects and we can all agree that general equality between men and women is far from achieved. I believe that part of the reason that we cannot achieve equality is because the term “equality for women” or “rights of women” is catered to the needs of white women only.
According to her book “Ain’t I a Woman”, “usually, when people talk about the strength of black women they are referring to the way in which they perceive black women coping with oppression. They ignore the reality that being strong in the face of oppression is not the same as overcoming oppression, that endurance is not to be confused with transformation”.
Being a woman is a struggle, but being a minority woman is a whole new level of struggle. Minority women are not seen the same way white women are. We are not only discriminated against by men, but by the women who do not see us as a women with different struggles/opinions/values because it is different from their own.
I was told once by a French white woman “you are now in Quebec, you are free you can be like us”. I was always in Quebec, born and raised, so it is not NOW that I am in Quebec. I did not feel trapped to feel the sense of need to be free. I am me so why am I expected to be like you? Why “US”? is US better? why?
However, when we show we embrace our culture and our differences, we are no longer human beings with differences, we become a display. People become infatuated by this difference (which is not necessarily a good type of interest, as shown in clip on Baartman). When we are different, and people want to show they “accept us” it somehow gives them the entitlement that we are now objects and they can comment/criticize and even feel like they have the right to touch us.
This clip portrays how Black women are perceived in regards to their physical appearance. What their hair says about them, and how people seem to think they have the right to just touch it like its an exposition in a gallery. The clips, all on youtube, speaks for themselves.
Looking at how these women express their feelings, I hope that other women can find a way to relate and become allies (inclusion/intersectionality among women). While I cannot say I have a black hair, I can still understand and empathize with these women from a different perspective. As a veiled Muslim woman I live in fear that any individual would pull of my hijab, not because it has happened to me, but it has happened to many other Muslim women. Following the debate regarding the Quebec Charter of Values, founder of the “support another” campaign, Sama Al-Obaidy, shared her discriminatory experience.
“A lady came up and tried to remove my hijab forcefully,She told me my hijab and myself don’t belong in Quebec and after a few exchanges of words she decided to start pulling on my veil. As it started getting loose I had to eventually stop her,” she said.
The audacity that some people have is shocking. What gave the right to this woman to think she can not only touch Sama’s hijab but also entitled enough to even pull it off.
Minority women are not up for display, we want to embrace our differences without having to be starred at, looked down on, criticized, or even told that we look “exotic” or that “we could look normal”.